People familiar with Xu know that one of the most proud things in his life is the watch and a string of Buddhist beads on his left hand. The Buddha beads were asked by his wife in the temple on their wedding anniversary, and the watch was sent by a female college student who had worked hard to save money. This itself is nothing strange, but the air is, send watch and send Buddha beads are aware of each other’s existence. In the construction of community, there are not many men who can afford two women. Even less so when both women know each other.