I was born in a small city in the north, although I grew up in the city, but the habit of son preference is very serious. My grandfather gave birth to four daughters, and then he had my uncle. Of the four daughters, only the third mother was admitted to the provincial university, but in order to save tuition, she went to the Provincial Normal University. My uncle was still very competitive. He was admitted to a good university in Nanjing. After graduation, he stayed in Nanjing for a short time as a civil servant. Then he went into business and married my aunt, a very delicate and gentle Shanghai girl.